Chris’ Vows

My Queen,

From the very first moment I laid eyes on you and looked into them, I knew I was looking at someone special with a beautiful heart and soul. I knew you would become my favorite person, my best friend, and the beautiful queen I could see myself spending the rest of my life with.

I promise to always be there for you, to give you my all, and to be the best husband I can possibly be. I promise to support you whenever you need me most, to love you through every season of life, and to always stand by your side.

I know we’ve had our ups and downs, and I can’t promise that there won’t be difficult moments. But what I do know is that, with patience, love, and understanding, we can get through anything we put our minds to because no matter what, we never give up on each other.

On this day, I choose you as my wife, my beautiful queen, and my best friend. And I’ll keep choosing you day in and day out, because there’s a reason we made it to this day and that reason is that, through everything, I’ve always loved you.

Rosa’s Vows

Chris,

If you had told me that I’d meet the love of my life on a dating app, I probably would’ve laughed— But somehow, there you were, and from then on, you made something unexpected feel completely right.

I never thought I’d find someone who loves me the way you do—fully, patiently, and without hesitation. And honestly, I really didn’t think I’d find someone who could handle my attitude as well as you have. Yet here you are, steady as ever, reminding me every day that love doesn’t have to be complicated to be real.

You are the most loving person I know. In a world that can feel loud and chaotic, you bring me a kind of calm that I didn’t even realize I needed. You’ve softened parts of me I thought were permanent—including, somehow, causing me to like pink and wear dresses again, which I didn’t think was possible. But more than that, you’ve shown me what it feels like to be safe.

I’ve spent most of my life being independent—sometimes to a fault. I built walls, learned to rely only on myself, and told myself that was strength. But with you, I’ve learned a different kind of strength—the kind that comes from trust. The kind that lets me put my guard down. With you, I don’t have to do everything alone. I get to be vulnerable. I get to be cared for. I even get to be the damsel in distress every once in a while—and honestly, I don’t hate it.

Today, as we choose to make this moment about us, it feels exactly right. No distractions, no expectations—just the two of us, building something that’s entirely our own.

I promise to support you and give you my honest opinion in everything you do, to stand beside you in the good moments and the hard ones.

I promise to build a life with you that is full of banter, and that is grounded in stability, even when everything else feels uncertain.

I promise to grow with you—to keep learning, evolving, and choosing us, over and over again.

And I promise to keep bringing my full self into this marriage… attitude included.

Chris, you are my partner, my calm, and my home. And I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life loving you.

I choose you—forever and always.”